Relationships

When In Doubt, Make Up

Everyone goes through times when they see their partners through less than adoring eyes for no particular reason. It comes out of weariness, boredom, or a bad mood. It erupts in times of personal doubt and change. You can make it into something big and scary, or you can face the fact that we’re all [...]

Articulate Your “Ouches”

You may allow a lot of small irritations to fester in your relationship when you choose to keep your pain – the “ouches” that arise in relation to your partner – to yourself. Maybe you’ve decided while licking your wounds that your mate’s ability to sense your injuries will be the test of whether he [...]

The Thing About Breaking Up

Is the need to look back on everything with black-tinted glasses (yes, I just made that up)
Or to rationalise things (ie dig up additional stuff to justify the reason)
Or to bring up stuff that was bad (as if to remind oneself that getting out of it is good)
Or tell oneself they were lies or they [...]

Go Mountain Climbing

The mountain goat climbs daily upon the highest ground, far above the cares and concerns of the average critter. It travels on sure feet over terrain that looks impossible. It roots out vegetation and uses it for nourishment. It discovers rivulets fed by melting snow and quenches its thirst. It accomplishes this through small, individual [...]

Block Quote

Now I recall why I liked being single. There was no one I had to constantly miss, no one to have stupid misunderstandings and petty quarrels with, and not having to feel pretty much everything I’m feeling right now. Relationships reduce me to a sulking child, I hate it.

It’s Not Often You Find Someone Who…

Lets you read your comics before bed while she does her own stuff
Watches you play your Xbox and asks what’s going on and points out little stuff on the screen that you’d not notice
Lets you game for 45 minutes inbetween “scheduled” activities
Stays up till 2am to watch soccer with you (even if she is being [...]

The Wedding Sermon

Reuben and Gillian’s wedding was last Saturday and before I blog about that, I really wanted to post the wedding sermon while it’s still fresh (by now semi-fresh) in my head.
Okay honestly the priest was going on a little bit too much on the extreme side of negative things for me, but I liked how [...]

Something Kelly Clarkson Has Wrong…

From “Already Gone”
You know that I love you enough to let you go
Bullshit. I’m pretty sure it’s “I love you enough to hold on tight“

My Girlfriend’s Eating Habits

My Girlfriend's Eating Habits

Yesterday I had a little post on plurk to identify this mystery food. My guess would have been lou hei (you know, that stuff you have during Chinese New Year).
Leshane came close to identifying the actual item:
I know what it is!!! The nyonya thingy right? the filling is like popiah filling..yum yum! with a [...]

Multimodal Means Of Communication

I was at lunch with Johnny and Sherms the other week, and they were commenting on how much both Ingrid and I are such social media and “connected” people, and asked how many different channels of communication we have with each other.
So here’s as comprehensive a list as I can think of (in no order [...]